Lesbian mothers, gay fathers, and their children: A review

Journal of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics

Volumn 26, Issue 3, 2005, Pages 224-240

  Tasker, Fiona ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF LONDON   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

Father child relations; Gay; Lesbian; Mother child relations; Parenting

Indexed keywords

ADJUSTMENT; AWARENESS; CHILD; CHILD PARENT RELATION; DIVORCE; FAMILY LIFE; FATHER; FATHER CHILD RELATION; GROUP PSYCHOLOGY; HETEROSEXUALITY; HOMOSEXUALITY; HUMAN; LESBIAN; MOTHER; MOTHER CHILD RELATION; PRIORITY JOURNAL; PSYCHOSEXUAL DEVELOPMENT; RESPONSIBILITY; REVIEW; SEX ROLE; SEXUAL ORIENTATION;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AWARENESS; CHILD; CHILD CARE; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; FEMALE; HOMOSEXUALITY, FEMALE; HOMOSEXUALITY, MALE; HUMANS; MALE; PARENTING; PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT; PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT; PREJUDICE; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL ADJUSTMENT;

EID: 21444452837     PISSN: 0196206X     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1097/00004703-200506000-00012     Document Type: Review

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