Managing conflict in a competent manner: A mindful look at events that matter

The SAGE Handbook of Conflict Communication: Integrating Theory, Research, and Practice

Volumn , Issue , 2006, Pages 185-210

  Canary, Daniel J ^a   Lakey, Sandra G ^b  

^a ARIZONA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b PENNSYLVANIA COLLEGE OF TECHNOLOGY   (United States)

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