Shame and guilt in child protection social work: New interpretations and opportunities for practice

Child and Family Social Work

Volumn 20, Issue 3, 2015, Pages 333-343

  Gibson, Matthew ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF BIRMINGHAM   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

Child protection; Guilt; Shame; Social work

Indexed keywords

EID: 84935729691     PISSN: 13567500     EISSN: 13652206     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/cfs.12081     Document Type: Article

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