Avoiding affection, avoiding altruism: Why is avoidant attachment related to less helping?

Personality and Individual Differences

Volumn 76, Issue , 2015, Pages 193-197

  Richman, Stephanie B ^a   DeWall, C Nathan ^b   Wolff, Michelle N ^b  

^a Westminster College   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF KENTUCKY   (United States)

Author keywords

Adult attachment; Emotion; Interpersonal relationships; Intimacy; Prosocial behavior; Social interaction

Indexed keywords

EID: 84922386666     PISSN: 01918869     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1016/j.paid.2014.12.018     Document Type: Article

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