Silencing the Self and Personality Vulnerabilities Associated with Depression

Silencing the Self Across Cultures: Depression and Gender in the Social World

Volumn , Issue , 2010, Pages

  Besser, Avi ^a   Flett, Gordon L ^b   Hewitt, Paul L ^c  

^a SAPIR ACADEMIC COLLEGE   (Israel)

^b York University   (Canada)

^c UNIVERSITY OF BRITISH COLUMBIA   (Canada)

Author keywords

Dependency; Depression; Perfectionism; Personality; Self criticism; Self silencing; Silencing the self scale

Indexed keywords

EID: 84921259474     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1093/acprof:oso/9780195398090.003.0014     Document Type: Chapter

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