Keeping quiet: Self-silencing and its association with relational and individual functioning among adolescent romantic couples

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 24, Issue 1, 2007, Pages 99-116

  Harper, Melinda S ^a   Welsh, Deborah P ^b  

^a QUEENS UNIVERSITY OF CHARLOTTE   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF TENNESSEE   (United States)

Author keywords

Adolescents; Communication; Depression; Relationship satisfaction; Romantic relationships; Self silencing

Indexed keywords

EID: 33846547548     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407507072601     Document Type: Article

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