Conffict and negotiation in adolescent romantic relationships

Adolescent Romantic Relations and Sexual Behavior: Theory, Research, and Practical Implications

Volumn , Issue , 2003, Pages 109-136

  Shulman, Shmuel ^a  

^a BAR ILAN UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

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DOI: 10.4324/9781410607782     Document Type: Chapter

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