Balancing Closeness and Individuality in Adolescent Close Relationships

International Journal of Behavioral Development

Volumn 21, Issue 4, 1997, Pages 687-702

  Shulman, Shmuel ^a   Knafo, Danielle ^a  

^a BAR ILAN UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

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EID: 0000021851     PISSN: 01650254     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/016502597384622     Document Type: Article

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