'I Was Quite Amazed': Donor Conception and Parent-Child Relationships from the Child's Perspective

Children and Society

Volumn 28, Issue 6, 2014, Pages 425-437

  Blake, Lucy ^a   Casey, Polly ^a   Jadva, Vasanti ^a   Golombok, Susan ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

Children's perspectives; Donor conception; Donor insemination; Egg donation; Family relationships; Parent child relationships

Indexed keywords

EID: 84907948703     PISSN: 09510605     EISSN: 10990860     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/chso.12014     Document Type: Article

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