"Looking for a married hookup": An examination of personal ads posted by men seeking sex with married men

Journal of Men's Studies

Volumn 20, Issue 2, 2012, Pages 144-157

  Cheeseman, Kelly ^a   Goodlin Fahncke, Wendi ^b   Tewksbury, Richard ^c  

^a MESSIAH COLLEGE   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF TOLEDO   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF LOUISVILLE   (United States)

Author keywords

Internet; men seeking men; personal ads; sex

Indexed keywords

EID: 84897585031     PISSN: 10608265     EISSN: 19330251     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.3149/jms.2002.144     Document Type: Article

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