'Creepy,' 'freaky,' and 'strange': How the 'uncanny' can illuminate the experience of single mothers by choice and lesbian couples who buy 'dad'

Journal of Consumer Culture

Volumn 13, Issue 2, 2013, Pages 140-159

  Layne, Linda L ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

Absent fathers; Absent presences; Artificial insemination; Assistive reproductive technologies (ARTs); Biological fathers; Choice moms; Confabulation; Consumer goods; Family forms; Kinship; Lesbian mothers; Poetic license; Single mothers by choice; Sperm donors; The uncanny; Two mom families

Indexed keywords

EID: 84880379612     PISSN: 14695405     EISSN: 17412900     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1469540513482600     Document Type: Article

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