Should people pursue feelings that feel good or feelings that do good? Emotional preferences and well-being

Emotion

Volumn 12, Issue 5, 2012, Pages 1061-1070

  Tamir, Maya ^a   Ford, Brett Q ^b  

^a HEBREW UNIVERSITY OF JERUSALEM   (Israel)

^b UNIVERSITY OF DENVER   (United States)

Author keywords

Anger; Emotion; Emotion regulation; Happiness; Well being

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ANGER; ARTICLE; EMOTION; EXTRAVERSION; HAPPINESS; HUMAN; PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL BEING; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY;

ANGER; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HAPPINESS; HUMANS; MALE; MOTIVATION; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 84871642530     PISSN: 15283542     EISSN: 19311516     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0027223     Document Type: Article

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