Why parenthood, and why now? Gay men's motivations for pursuing parenthood

Family Relations

Volumn 61, Issue 1, 2012, Pages 157-174

  Goldberg, Abbie E ^a   Downing, Jordan B ^a   Moyer, April M ^a  

^a CLARK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Gay men; Life course; Motivations; Parenthood; Qualitative; Social constructionist

Indexed keywords

EID: 84855972586     PISSN: 01976664     EISSN: 17413729     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3729.2011.00687.x     Document Type: Article

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