Listening behaviors of married couples: an exploration of nonverbal presentation to a relational outsider

International Journal of Listening

Volumn 21, Issue 1, 2007, Pages 24-41

  Doohan, Eve Anne ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF SAN FRANCISCO   (United States)

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EID: 84855364777     PISSN: 10904018     EISSN: 1932586X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10904010709336844     Document Type: Article

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