Practicing Compassion Increases Happiness and Self-Esteem

Journal of Happiness Studies

Volumn 12, Issue 6, 2011, Pages 963-981

  Mongrain, Myriam ^a   Chin, Jacqueline M ^b   Shapira, Leah B ^a  

^a YORK UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

^b QUEEN S UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

Author keywords

Attachment; Compassion; Compassionate action; Happiness; Self esteem

Indexed keywords

EID: 80255141764     PISSN: 13894978     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s10902-010-9239-1     Document Type: Article

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