Self-forgiveness in Psychology and Psychotherapy: A Critique

Journal of Religion and Health

Volumn 50, Issue 2, 2011, Pages 248-263

  Vitz, Paul C ^a   Meade, Jennifer M ^a  

^a Institute for the Psychological Sciences   (United States)

Author keywords

Conflict of interest; Narcissism; Self acceptance; Self forgiveness; Shame; Splitting

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; FEMALE; HUMAN; MALE; NARCISSISM; PSYCHOLOGY; PSYCHOTHERAPY; SELF CONCEPT; SHAME;

FEMALE; HUMANS; MALE; NARCISSISM; PSYCHOLOGY; PSYCHOTHERAPY; SELF CONCEPT; SHAME;

EID: 79956010753     PISSN: 00224197     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s10943-010-9343-x     Document Type: Article

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