"He loves me, he loves me not...": Uncertainty can increase romantic attraction

Psychological Science

Volumn 22, Issue 2, 2011, Pages 172-175

  Whitchurch, Erin R ^a   Wilson, Timothy D ^a   Gilbert, Daniel T ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF VIRGINIA   (United States)

^b HARVARD UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

interpersonal attraction; reciprocity; sense making; uncertainty

Indexed keywords

AFFECT; ARTICLE; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LOVE; MALE; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; STUDENT; UNCERTAINTY;

AFFECT; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; LOVE; MALE; STUDENTS; UNCERTAINTY;

EID: 79952049618     PISSN: 09567976     EISSN: 14679280     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0956797610393745     Document Type: Article

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