Idealizing parenthood to rationalize parental investments

Psychological Science

Volumn 22, Issue 2, 2011, Pages 203-208

  Eibach, Richard P ^a   Mock, Steven E ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WATERLOO   (Canada)

Author keywords

cognitive dissonance; ideology; life satisfaction; parental investment; rationalization; self interest; well being

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADULT; ARTICLE; CHILD; CHILD PARENT RELATION; DEFENSE MECHANISM; ECONOMICS; EMOTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; MALE; MENTAL STRESS; PARENT; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SATISFACTION;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADULT; CHILD; ECONOMICS; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; MALE; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; PARENTING; PARENTS; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; RATIONALIZATION; STRESS, PSYCHOLOGICAL;

EID: 79952047792     PISSN: 09567976     EISSN: 14679280     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0956797610397057     Document Type: Article

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