If Momma ain't happy: Explaining declines in marital satisfaction among new mothers

Journal of Marriage and Family

Volumn 73, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 1-12

  Dew, Jeffrey ^a   Wilcox, W Bradford ^b  

^a UTAH STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF VIRGINIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Equity; Marital satisfaction; Motherhood; Religion; Role traditionalization; Time use

Indexed keywords

EID: 78651089710     PISSN: 00222445     EISSN: 17413737     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3737.2010.00782.x     Document Type: Article

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