Too ashamed to report: Deconstructing the shame of sexual victimization

Feminist Criminology

Volumn 5, Issue 3, 2010, Pages 286-310

  Weiss, Karen G ^a  

^a WEST VIRGINIA UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

gender; nonreporting; rape; self blame; sexual victimization; sexuality; shame

Indexed keywords

EID: 77955740208     PISSN: 15570851     EISSN: 1557086X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1557085110376343     Document Type: Article

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