When positive processes hurt relationships

Current Directions in Psychological Science

Volumn 19, Issue 3, 2010, Pages 167-171

  McNulty, James K ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TENNESSEE   (United States)

Author keywords

Behavior; Cognition; Context; Marriage; Relationships

Indexed keywords

EID: 77954513377     PISSN: 09637214     EISSN: 14678721     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0963721410370298     Document Type: Article

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