The challenge of sexual attraction within heterosexuals' cross-sex friendship

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 26, Issue 6-7, 2009, Pages 919-937

  Halatsis, Panayotis ^a   Christakis, Nicolas ^a  

^a PANTEION UNIVERSITY   (Greece)

Author keywords

Cross sex friendship; Friendship; Relational development; Relationship types; Sexual activity; Sexual attraction

Indexed keywords

EID: 72749095205     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407509345650     Document Type: Article

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