Payback: The parameters of revenge in romantic relationships

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 26, Issue 6-7, 2009, Pages 747-768

  Boon, Susan D ^a   Deveau, Vicki L ^a   Alibhai, Alishia M ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALGARY   (Canada)

Author keywords

Dating relationships; Provocations; Responses to provocations; Revenge acts; Revenge motives; Romantic partners; Romantic revenge; Wrongdoing

Indexed keywords

EID: 72749094019     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407509347926     Document Type: Article

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