Friendships are flexible, not fragile: Turning points in geographically-close and long-distance friendships

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 26, Issue 4, 2009, Pages 347-369

  Becker, Jennifer A H ^a   Johnson, Amy Janan ^b   Craig, Elizabeth A ^c   Gilchrist, Eileen S ^d   Haigh, Michel M ^e   Lane, Lindsay T ^f  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN EAU CLAIRE   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF OKLAHOMA   (United States)

^c NORTH CAROLINA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^d UNIVERSITY OF WYOMING   (United States)

^e PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^f Planned Parenthood of North Texas ^*  (United States)

Author keywords

Commitment; Friendship; Geographically close relationship; Long distance relationship; Proximity; Relational change; Turning point analysis

Indexed keywords

EID: 72149116722     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407509344310     Document Type: Article

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