Sexual satisfaction in committed relationships

Sexuality Research and Social Policy

Volumn 6, Issue 1, 2009, Pages 1-17

  Schwartz, Pepper ^a   Young, Linda ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WASHINGTON   (United States)

^b Campus Office Park ^*  (United States)

Author keywords

Ccommitment; Couples; Intimacy; Relationship happiness; Sexuality

Indexed keywords

EID: 67650558993     PISSN: 15536610     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1525/srsp.2009.6.1.1     Document Type: Review

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