Extradyadic sex and gay male couples: Comparing monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships

Families in Society

Volumn 85, Issue 3, 2004, Pages 405-412

  LaSala, Michael C ^a,b  

^a RUTGERS UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b Institute for Personal Growth   (United States)

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EID: 7444219942     PISSN: 10443894     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1606/1044-3894.1502     Document Type: Article

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