"The royal we": Gender ideology, display, and assessment in wedding work

Journal of Family Issues

Volumn 29, Issue 1, 2008, Pages 3-25

  Humble, Áine M ^a   Zvonkovic, Anisa M ^b   Walker, Alexis J ^c  

^a MOUNT SAINT VINCENT UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

^b TEXAS TECH UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c OREGON STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Division of labor; Gender; Housework; Ritual; Weddings

Indexed keywords

EID: 37248999265     PISSN: 0192513X     EISSN: 15525481     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0192513X07305900     Document Type: Article

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