Defining dates and first date goals: Generalizing from undergraduates to single adults

Communication Research

Volumn 34, Issue 5, 2007, Pages 526-547

  Mongeau, Paul A ^a   Jacobsen, Janet ^b   Donnerstein, Carolyn ^a  

^a ARIZONA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b University of Arizona ^*

Author keywords

College students; Commitment; Dating; First dates; Sex differences; Single adults

Indexed keywords

EID: 34548449322     PISSN: 00936502     EISSN: 15523810     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0093650207305235     Document Type: Article

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