"Let's do it again": Further reflections on eros and attachment

Psychoanalytic Dialogues

Volumn 16, Issue 6, 2006, Pages 619-637

  Goldner, Virginia ^a,b,c  

^a International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy

^b NEW YORK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c NONE   (United States)

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EID: 34249666067     PISSN: 10481885     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10481880701357248     Document Type: Review

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