Beyond doer and done to: An intersubjective view of thirdness

Psychoanalytic Quarterly

Volumn 73, Issue 1, 2004, Pages 5-46

  Benjamin, Jessica ^a  

^a NONE   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ANGER; CHILD PARENT RELATION; FAMILY; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; PSYCHOANALYSIS; PSYCHOLOGICAL THEORY; REVIEW; SHAME;

EID: 0346081430     PISSN: 00332828     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1002/j.2167-4086.2004.tb00151.x     Document Type: Review

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