Reflecting on life: Remembering as a major process in adult development

Journal of Language and Social Psychology

Volumn 25, Issue 3, 2006, Pages 244-263

  Pasupathi, Monisha ^a   Weeks, Trisha ^a   Rice, Cora ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF UTAH   (United States)

Author keywords

Adult development; Discourse; Life story; Lifespan development; Memory; Narrative; Self

Indexed keywords

EID: 33746350440     PISSN: 0261927X     EISSN: 15526526     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0261927X06289425     Document Type: Article

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