Being better or getting better? social and temporal comparisons as coping mechanisms in close relationships

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 28, Issue 9, 2002, Pages 1287-1299

  Frye, Nancy E ^a,b   Karney, Benjamin R ^a,c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF FLORIDA   (United States)

^b LONG ISLAND UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c University of Florida   (United States)

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EID: 23044533131     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/01461672022812013     Document Type: Article

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