Shared or conflicting working models? Relationships in postdivorce families seen through the eyes of mothers and their preschool children

Development and Psychopathology

Volumn 16, Issue 3, 2004, Pages 551-575

  Bretherton, Inge ^a   Page, Timothy F ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN MADISON   (United States)

^b LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; AWARENESS; CONFLICT; DIVORCE; EMPATHY; FAMILY; FAMILY RELATION; FATHER; FATHER CHILD RELATION; FEMALE; HUMAN; INTERVIEW; MAJOR CLINICAL STUDY; MALE; MOTHER; MOTHER CHILD RELATION; PERCEPTION; PRESCHOOL CHILD; PRIORITY JOURNAL; QUALITATIVE ANALYSIS; REGRESSION ANALYSIS; SEX DIFFERENCE; ADULT; ATTITUDE; CHILD PARENT RELATION; MIDDLE AGED; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT;

ADULT; ATTITUDE; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; CONFLICT (PSYCHOLOGY); DIVORCE; FAMILY; FAMILY RELATIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; MIDDLE AGED; MOTHER-CHILD RELATIONS; MOTHERS; PARENTING; SOCIAL PERCEPTION;

EID: 16644384982     PISSN: 09545794     EISSN: 14692198     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1017/S0954579404004663     Document Type: Article

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