On the interpersonal regulation of emotions: Emotional reliance across gender, relationships, and cultures

Personal Relationships

Volumn 12, Issue 1, 2005, Pages 145-163

  Ryan, Richard M ^a   La Guardia, Jennifer G ^b   Solky Butzel, Jessica ^c   Chirkov, Valery ^d   Kim, Youngmee ^e  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ROCHESTER   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF WATERLOO   (Canada)

^c Roosevelt Hospital   (United States)

^d UNIVERSITY OF SASKATCHEWAN   (Canada)

^e AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY   (United States)

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EID: 14644432348     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1350-4126.2005.00106.x     Document Type: Review

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