Gender differences and dynamics shaping the adoption life cycle: Review of the literature and recommendations

American Journal of Orthopsychiatry

Volumn 75, Issue 1, 2005, Pages 86-101

  Freeark, Kristine ^a   Rosenberg, Elinor B ^a   Bornstein, Jane ^a   Jozefowicz Simbeni, Debra ^b   Linkevich, Michael ^a   Lohnes, Kelly ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN   (United States)

^b WAYNE STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENCE; ADOPTION; BIRTH PARENT; CHILD BEHAVIOR; CHILDHOOD; CLINICAL PRACTICE; EMOTIONALITY; FAMILY LIFE; FATHER; FEMALE; FEMINIZATION; FERTILITY; FOSTER CARE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; IDENTITY; INFERTILITY; INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION; MALE; MEDICAL RESEARCH; PARENT; PARENTHOOD; PREGNANCY; PSYCHODYNAMICS; REVIEW; SEX DIFFERENCE; SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY; SOCIAL SUPPORT; UNPLANNED PREGNANCY;

ADOLESCENT; ADOPTION; CHILD; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; FAMILY; FEMALE; GENDER IDENTITY; HUMANS; INFANT; INFERTILITY; MALE;

EID: 13844308132     PISSN: 00029432     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0002-9432.75.1.86     Document Type: Review

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