Trait Expressiveness and Marital Satisfaction: The Role of Idealization Processes

Journal of Marriage and Family

Volumn 65, Issue 4, 2003, Pages 978-995

  Miller, Paul J E ^a   Caughlin, John P ^b   Huston, Ted L ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

Author keywords

Idealization; Marital interaction; Marital satisfaction; Personality

Indexed keywords

EID: 0344064948     PISSN: 00222445     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00978.x     Document Type: Article

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