Hurt feelings among new acquaintances: Moderating effects of interpersonal familiarity

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 18, Issue 3, 2001, Pages 315-326

  Snapp, Christine M ^a   Leary, Mark R ^a  

^a WAKE FOREST UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Closeness; Emotion; Familiarity; Hurt feelings

Indexed keywords

EID: 0035596404     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407501183001     Document Type: Article

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