Maintaining nonvoluntary relationships with disliked partners: An investigation into the use of distancing behaviors

Human Communication Research

Volumn 26, Issue 3, 2000, Pages 458-488

  Hess, Jon A ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI   (United States)

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EID: 0034214457     PISSN: 03603989     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1468-2958.2000.tb00765.x     Document Type: Article

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