Thinking/feeling about social and personal relationships

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 16, Issue 6, 1999, Pages 731-750

  Planalp, Sally ^a   Fitness, Julie ^a  

^a NONE

Author keywords

Cognition; Emotion; Relationships; Thinking

Indexed keywords

EID: 0033483493     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407599166004     Document Type: Article

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