Sex and romantic love: Connects and disconnects

The Handbook of Sexuality in Close Relationships

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 159-182

  Hendrick, Clyde ^a   Hendrick, Susan S ^a  

^a TEXAS TECH UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9781410610249-15     Document Type: Chapter

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