The emotionally intelligent marriage

Emotional Intelligence in Everyday Life

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 129-139

  Fitness, Julie ^a  

^a MACQUARIE UNIVERSITY   (Australia)

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EID: 85084551153     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.4324/9780203943397-17     Document Type: Chapter

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