To love or be loved in vain: The trials and tribulations of unrequited love

The Dark Side of Close Relationships

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 307-326

  Bratslavsky, Ellen ^a   Baumeister, Roy F ^a   Sommer, Kristin L ^a  

^a CASE WESTERN RESERVE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9781410601117-20     Document Type: Chapter

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