Flirtation and conversational competence in cross–sex platonic and romantic relationships

International Journal of Phytoremediation

Volumn 21, Issue 1, 1996, Pages 105-117

  Egland, Kori L ^a   Spitzberg, Brian H ^b   Zormeier, Michelle M ^c  

^a NATIONAL RESEARCH COUNCIL   (United States)

^b SAN DIEGO STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c Andersen Consulting   (United States)

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EID: 85064780531     PISSN: 15226514     EISSN: 15497879     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/08934219609367643     Document Type: Article

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