Intertraumatic dissociative attachment: Treating trauma-based transactions in couples

Journal of Couples Therapy

Volumn 10, Issue 1, 2001, Pages 69-112

  Parson, Erwin Randolph ^a,b  

^a Veterans Annual Concerns Conference   (United States)

^b VETERANS AFFAIRS MEDICAL CENTER   (United States)

Author keywords

Biopsychobehavioral responses; Couple therapy; Dissociation; Theory; Trauma

Indexed keywords

EID: 85023955225     PISSN: 08974446     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J036v10n01_06     Document Type: Article

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