The gay therapist’s response to a gay client practicing unsafe sex: A dilemma in brief psychotherapy

Psychoanalytic Social Work

Volumn 6, Issue 3-4, 1999, Pages 161-201

  Cohler, Bertram J ^a  

^a The University of Chicago   (United States)

Author keywords

Brief psychotherapy; Countertransference; Gay mental health

Indexed keywords

EID: 85008827406     PISSN: 15228878     EISSN: 15229033     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J032v06n03_08     Document Type: Article

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