“here i go again”: An examination of repetitive behaviors during interpersonal conflicts

Southern Communication Journal

Volumn 64, Issue 3, 1999, Pages 232-244

  Turk, Donald R ^a   Monahan, Jennifer L ^a  

^a NONE   (United States)

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EID: 85007840038     PISSN: 1041794X     EISSN: 19303203     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10417949909373136     Document Type: Article

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