Saving the modern soul: Therapy, emotions, and the culture of self-help

Saving the Modern Soul: Therapy, Emotions, and the Culture of Self-Help

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  Illouz, Eva ^a  

^a HEBREW UNIVERSITY OF JERUSALEM   (Israel)

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