The impact of adoption on the new parents' marriage

Adoption Quarterly

Volumn 2, Issue 2, 1998, Pages 57-78

  Ward, Margaret ^a  

^a Cambrian College   (Canada)

Author keywords

Adoption; Infertility; Marital satisfaction; Transition to parenthood

Indexed keywords

EID: 84977815112     PISSN: 10926755     EISSN: 1544452X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J145v02n02_04     Document Type: Article

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