Sex, dating, passionate friendships, and romance: Intimate peer relations among lesbian, gay, and bisexual adolescents

The Development of Romantic Relationships in Adolescence

Volumn , Issue , 2014, Pages 175-210

  Diamond, Lisa M ^a   Savin Williams, Ritch C ^a   Dubé, Eric M ^a  

^a Department of Obstetrics Gynecology   (United States)

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DOI: 10.1017/CBO9781316182185.009     Document Type: Chapter

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