Conflict, emotion, and communication

The SAGE Handbook of Conflict Communication: Integrating Theory, Research, and Practice

Volumn , Issue , 2006, Pages 69-96

  Guerrero, Laura K ^a   La Valley, Angela G ^a  

^a ARIZONA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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